Mixed Signals

Mixed Signals

People who send mixed signals irritate me SO much like.. Why? It's stupid. Be straight forward. I feel like males do it more than females and 9 times out of 10 , If  a female is sending mixed signals.. Its because a male started it first. <--- My OPINION.  Dating is full of of uncertainty but that's what makes it interesting.. Waiting to see who will make the first move or what not. Males tend to put a lot of things through text or just WORDS period. " Actions speak louder than words. " Saying " I love you  " doesn't mean ANYTHING until you show it. Females on the other hand tend to play ' hard to get ' a lot because males love a challenge & nothing easy lasts too long. Like Tupac said , " I don't mean to sound sleazy but tease me.. I don't want it If its that EASY. " Sometimes that's where a lot of boys go wrong though cause they give up and settle for less. * SHRUGS *  .. I know about a few mixed signals that even I have experienced.

Most Common Mixed Signals

• She says she wants to be just FRIENDS & then kisses you. 

This means she wants to take it at her own pace. Either the guy is doing too much at the moment or the girl just likes to be in control. Males usually push for things physically & Females use " Just friends " to slow things down until she is sure she's interested in a relationship. The kiss is just letting her test the waters.

• He asks for your number but never calls.

No matter how much he flirted with you when he asked for your number , It's best to assume he won't call.

Some males just like to keep their options open so they give their number out every now and then. Don't feel bad about it because as time passed ..He probably realized you weren't quite his type , Felt too insecure to call or maybe even ran into his ex and decided to give it another shot with her.

• She asks questions she doesn't want answered.

It's basically her way of getting your attention and testing you just to hear your response .

Deep down , she thinks the worst when she ask these questions and is afraid of what the answer may be.

Questions like .. " Do you think she's prettier than me? " .. " Are you still involved with your ex? " .. She's not asking these questions to make you mad , She's VERY curious and It's been on her mind. Most times when a girl asks is another girl prettier , She already knows the answer . DUH.

• He flirts with other girls in your face

Hmm .. When most males flirt with other girls around another girl  , He usually likes that girl. He wants her to get jealous.  That is a mixed signal most deff because It could also mean the guy doesn't care about your feelings and He wants you to get the picture , HE DOESN'T LIKE YOU .. FALL BACK. lol Nah , um..  Half the time , He's thirsty for attention. If It were me being flirted around & not being flirted with ? Oh , I would WALK AWAY with a smile ..carry-on with my IDGAF face. Then later on , It would hit me that he likes me.